A complicated girlfriend is fascinating, yet so complex.
I consider myself to be “complicated” because I am passionate, opinionated, captivating, and unapologetic, all layered into an emotionally complex woman.
Dating a complicated woman is not for everyone; her fierceness will spook the weak. However, she’s downright magnetic for thinkers and feelers who appreciate witty banter, theoretical conversations, and thoughtful debates.
Here’s why everyone should be interested in having a relationship with a complicated woman.
1. She will never be boring
A complicated woman has led a complicated, and probably difficult, life. She’s a great conversationalist because she can relate to a lot of different perspectives and has something to add to any discussion. Not only is her personality complicated, but also so are her hobbies and interests, which is exactly what makes her a blast to get to know.
A complicated woman will have some crazy stories you’ll never hear from anyone else. You will hear some novel, interesting stories even decades down the line. If you date a complicated woman, you will never feel bored.
2. She is honest
Bluntness is one of a complicated girl’s main qualities. A complicated woman is brave enough to tell you exactly what she expects from you, and she will always call you out on your bullshit. You don’t have to agree with her expectations, but following some of them may keep you ticking in life. She may not always agree with you; you will have some disagreements and fights, but all those things will make your life more interesting. Complicated women express deeply, sincerely, and often.
3. She’s a mystery
A complicated woman will always seem a bit of a mystery. She’s intriguing, out of the ordinary, and exciting. She will always keep you guessing. A complicated woman will never lose her sense of mystery. She will continue to surprise you and make you wonder what she thinks, what she does, and why she does it. The more you get to know her, the more you’ll realize she’s completely unpredictable.
4. She is a workaholic
A complicated woman loves to be productive and active. She works hard for what she wants and has her own goals and dreams. She can accomplish a huge amount of work and leave you wondering how the hell she manages to do everything.
5. She’s full of wisdom
A complicated woman knows that the world, and therefore people, are not black and white. She’s open to different perspectives and usually has something insightful to add, because she has experienced more than a lot of people. Since most complicated women strive for perfection, they never stop learning.
6. She’s intelligent
A complicated woman is intelligent, otherwise she wouldn’t be capable of navigating the complexity of her own mind. A complicated woman will always inspire you to explore the unknown and try new things. She will also teach you to see things others can’t see. It’s not all that easy to be complicated. It’s not something we decide to do, but in our minds, everything is complex.
7. She is not easy
A complicated woman knows how to make a man feel like he needs to work for it. She may not make everything easy for you, but when you have to work for something, getting it is just that much more satisfying. You may spend a lot of time and effort to win her heart and make her fall in love with you, but you will never regret your decision to get to know her.
8. She’s very private
A complicated woman keeps to herself more than the average person. She battles her demons behind closed doors because. the more demons people have, the more they seem to keep their stories private. Her life could be falling apart, but you will never see her on social media crying or complaining how difficult life is. She will always hold her head up high and handle whatever life throws at her, because that is true strength.
9. She wants you, but does not need you
A complicated woman is a woman who knows what she deserves. This woman craves more from a man. Most people like to rush through the relationship as if there were some sort of medal waiting for them across the finish line. A complicated woman doesn’t hurry, so if she chooses to be with you, it’s because she wants you… but she does not need you. She wants to be with you because she sees great potential in you and believes in you.
10. She will make you a better man
A complicated woman may be difficult, but deep down her intentions are good. She just wants what’s best for you and for the relationship. This is a woman you should date because she will inspire you and satisfy you, leaving you always wanting more of her in your life.
11. A complicated woman is passionate
She may seem bitchy, but this woman will encourage and push you to follow your dreams. As much as you may not like the fact that she challenges your opinions, this will always make her more entertaining and satisfying.
She will be crazy at times, but it’s just because she cares. There will be times that her emotions are all over the place, but emotions are what can make us feel most alive. Embrace the emotion.
A complicated woman may be hard to love at times, but she’s most definitely worth the trouble. Her complexity is what makes her so wonderful and your relationship so deep. A complicated woman can be intoxicating, and she will quickly become your drug of choice.
Mitzi J Hernandez is a writer who focuses on love, dating, and relationships. You can find more of her love and lifestyle content by visiting her author profile on Unwritten.