Why\ncougars are hunted by so many men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\nman who’s had experience dating and having sex with older women is likely to\nremember it as some of the best sex of his life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not\nonly that, but younger men and their future partners continue to benefit from\nthese encounters later, when the guys in form healthy, long-term relationships\nwith women closer to their own age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
On\nthe other hand, some men find what they initially thought was a fleeting\nattraction to “cougars” ends up becoming their “type.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
After\nall, once you’ve learned how to have great sex from a cougar, you’ll be hard\npressed to find a better tutor, mate or lover.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here\nare ten reasons so many younger men say sex with older women is so hot \u2014 all of\nwhich are excellent sex tips to try out in your own bedroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1.\nIt’s a numbers game<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The\ncougar age alone means many more years of experience with multiple partners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Before marriage, they may have had a few partners.\u00a0After divorce, the notches on their bedposts\u00a0may have gone up exponentially.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2.\nThey have had lots of practice<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Cougars\nhave been in long term relationships and marriages, which have provided years\nof sexual experience with one partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Those\nmemories are implanted into the older woman’s brain and, whether good or bad,\nhave shaped her sexual expertise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3.\nThey know what they want<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Their\nself-awareness comes from years of experience and communicating with sexual partners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n They’ve tried following\u00a0expert sex tips and advice about different positions, techniques, and fetishes. They’ve self-pleasured themselves for many years, and aren’t afraid of communicating the stuff that really gets them purring.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If\nthe girl doesn’t know what she wants, it’s hard for the man to figure it out.\nCougars know exactly what they want and which buttons the guy needs to press.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4.\nThey’ve learned what men want<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n And\nthey are eager to find out the specific desires of their current boyfriend.\nThey’ve been taught by a variety of partners which positions and techniques\nturn men on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n They\nask questions and figure out what makes their man roar like the king of a\nlion’s den. What they don’t know, they will research in books, movies or on the\nInternet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 5.\nThey enjoy sex as much as their male partner<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n They\ndon’t have any delusions that they are going to hook this man into marriage\nand\/or start a family. This takes the pressure off a man who just wants to have\nfun without obligations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This\nstress relief is a major reason sex is great with an older woman who isn’t as\nneedy or demanding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 6.\nThey realize the importance of sex in a relationship<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n She\nmay have been in a marriage where sex was withheld. She won’t use sex as a\nbargaining chip or try to get something materialistic from the younger man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cougars know\u00a0the psychological and physical benefits of regular sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 7.\nIt’s flattering to the younger man that a hot older woman finds him desirable<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n It’s\na challenge to be with an attractive, sexy older lady who is physically fit and\nkeeps herself well groomed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n She\nhas the time to take care of herself since her children are older and less\ndependent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 8.\nThey enjoy teaching their eager younger students<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n They\nknow when to be dominant and submissive. The man senses this knowledge and\npower, which is very stimulating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The\nolder woman will buy books, lingerie, sex toys, candles and wine to set the\nmood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 9.\nThey have confidence in their bodies and sexual prowess<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n This\nis a huge turn-on for men who may have been with young girls who are just\nlearning the ropes. The younger girls may be self-conscious and uncomfortable\ntalking dirty in bed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Older\nwomen are spontaneous and comfortable being naked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 10.\nThey aren’t afraid to communicate<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The\nyounger man will know exactly where he stands with her. She won’t play mind\ngames with her younger man by not answering her phone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n She\nwill approach a man in a bar and not wait for him to make the first move. She\nwill indicate what she wants from the relationship. She will openly share her\nsexual needs and desires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n She\nisn’t worried about losing the man if she expresses herself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n KarenLee Poter, MSW,<\/a> is\nthe host of the KarenLee Poter Show on Dating, Love, Sex and Everything In\nBetween, as well the author of A Cougar’s Guide To Getting Your A$$ Back Out There<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Why cougars are hunted by so many men. A man who’s had experience dating and having sex with older women is likely to remember it as some of the best sex of his life. Not only that, but younger men and their future partners continue to benefit from these encounters later, when the guys in […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":27983,"featured_media":5781,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_paywall_metabox":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9657","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-relationships"],"yoast_head":"\n