{"id":9349,"date":"2019-05-03T16:14:11","date_gmt":"2019-05-03T13:14:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/?p=9349"},"modified":"2019-05-03T16:14:29","modified_gmt":"2019-05-03T13:14:29","slug":"11-signs-hes-not-in-love-youre-just-convenient-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/2019\/05\/03\/11-signs-hes-not-in-love-youre-just-convenient-2\/","title":{"rendered":"11 Signs He&#8217;s Not In Love \u2014 You&#8217;re Just Convenient"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Falling\nin love is an amazing feeling, but you never want to force it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If\nyou&#8217;re dating someone who makes you question your relationship status\nconstantly, it&#8217;s time to ask yourself some questions. And if you want to know\nhow to tell if a guy loves you, there are some undeniable signs that show if he\ndoes or doesn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You\ndeserve someone who wants to be with you and only you, so here are 11 signs he\ndoesn&#8217;t love you and is only staying with you because it&#8217;s convenient.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1.\nHe&#8217;s always busy.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He\nshould want to spend lots of his free time with you. And if he&#8217;s busy, he\nshould make time for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2.\nHe doesn&#8217;t introduce you to his friends or family.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If\nhe is serious, he should want to show you off to the people closest to him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3.\nHe won&#8217;t open up to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If\nyou have tried to ask him about his past and he&#8217;s hesitant to tell you, he\nprobably has problems letting people in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4.\nYou always plan the dates.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He\nshould be putting in just as much effort as you. A relationship is a two-way\nstreet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5.\nHe texts but never calls.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\nshows effort when your guy does more than shoot you a quick text. It also shows\ntransparency \u2014 he can openly tell you what he&#8217;s up to with his voice rather\nthan hiding behind written words.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>6.\nHe leaves you out of future plans.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When\nhe talks about events in the future, he rarely includes you in them. He should\nbe thinking about the future of the both of you as a couple too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>7.\nHe still talks to ex-girlfriends.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s\na big red flag if he still speaks to former flames on a regular basis. If he&#8217;s\nserious about you, those past relationships aren&#8217;t worth keeping up with\nanymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>8.\nHe avoids all forms of affection in public.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Some\nguys don&#8217;t like to show a lot of affection in public, and that&#8217;s OK! But if he\nwon&#8217;t even put his arm around you or squeeze your hand, he&#8217;s being too\nstandoffish.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>9.\nHe cancels plans often.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s\ninconsiderate of you and your feelings to ditch plans. He should be considerate\nof your schedule.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>10.\nYou feel uneasy when you&#8217;re together.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You\nshould feel totally comfortable and happy while with your guy. If questions and\nworries about your relationship are occupying your mind, that&#8217;s not a good\nthing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>11.\nHe doesn&#8217;t take the time to get to know you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You\ndeserve respect. You deserve to feel important. The man you&#8217;re seeing should\nwant to get to know you, and if he doesn&#8217;t, he&#8217;s not worth it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/macycwilliams\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Macy Cate Williams<\/a>&nbsp;is\nan editor for PopSugar Shop and PopSugar Must Have.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Falling in love is an amazing feeling, but you never want to force it. If you&#8217;re dating someone who makes you question your relationship status constantly, it&#8217;s time to ask yourself some questions. And if you want to know how to tell if a guy loves you, there are some undeniable signs that show if [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":27983,"featured_media":4009,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_paywall_metabox":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9349","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9349","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/27983"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9349"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9349\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9350,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9349\/revisions\/9350"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4009"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9349"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9349"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9349"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}