{"id":9162,"date":"2019-04-12T11:17:57","date_gmt":"2019-04-12T08:17:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/?p=9162"},"modified":"2019-04-12T11:18:02","modified_gmt":"2019-04-12T08:18:02","slug":"3-reasons-why-a-married-guy-will-never-leave-his-wife-for-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/2019\/04\/12\/3-reasons-why-a-married-guy-will-never-leave-his-wife-for-you\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Reasons Why A Married Guy Will Never Leave His Wife For You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

If\nyou think he’s yours, think again.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

At least three times a week I get an email from women asking me for “relationship advice” about the married man they’re dating (i.e., having an affair with). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

These “other women” are all frustrated because the guy they’re cheating with hasn’t left his wife, and they want some form of commitment from him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If\nyou’re a woman who’s currently having sex with a married man, this going to be\na virtual slap in the face \u2014 and it’s one you need.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He’s\nnever going to leave his wife for you, his mistress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And\nwhen you take a closer look at the reasons why men cheat and the benefits they\ngain through infidelity, you’ll quickly see that I’m right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\nare three reasons you’re wasting your life waiting for a married man to end his\nmarriage, because no, he’ll never leave his wife for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1.\nHe has everything he needs<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why\nwould he leave his wife and kids?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He\ngets to have amazing sex with you with no commitment at all, and then he gets\nto go home and play with his kids. It’s the ideal situation for a guy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He\nhas the wife who feeds him, cleans up after him, and looks after his children,\nand then he has his lover taking care of him in other ways he needs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He\nhas two girlfriends and everything done for him. He’s enjoying it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.\nDivorce is too painful<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Think\nabout the repercussions of divorce. There’s the hassle of lawyers, the\nfighting, the upset of the children, the financial burden, and a host of other\nproblems divorce throws up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why\nwould he put himself and his family through that if he doesn’t have to? You\nseem happy to see him when he can fit you in, so why would he leave his wife?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3.\nHe’d have left her already<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If\nthis guy loved you more than anything, then even with the pain of divorce and\nthe upset of leaving his family, he’d have left her by now. If he wanted to be\nwith you, and if he loved you like you think he does, he’d have already left\nhis family.;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Think\nabout it. He hasn’t left his wife because he doesn’t want to. It’s as simple as\nthat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now\nthat you know he’ll never leave his wife, what should you do about it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Very\nsimply, you can give him an ultimatum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What\nhe’s doing isn’t fair to you, his wife, or his children, and he needs to make\nup his mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gather\nas much strength as you can, look him in the face, and tell him this:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

“I love you. I want to be with you. But I’m not going to do this anymore. I’m not going to see you again until you move out of your home. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I want to come to your new apartment. I don’t want to keep meeting at my place or in hotels. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The only way you’ll see me again is if you text me or call me with the address of your new apartment. I want proof you’ve left your wife.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give\nhim this ultimatum and you\u2019ll know where you stand. Are you going to be his\npartner, or will you only ever be “the other woman”?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\nsee, the “other woman” is never going to succeed. She is never going\nto get the man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All\nshe’s going to do is waste her life waiting for a man who will never be hers\nwhile missing the chance to find a man who’s devoted only to her. I know women\nwho have done this for four, five, or even six years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Look\nat your own emotional needs, wants, and desires.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Are\nyou dating a married man because you like to live on the edge? Is it because\nyou don\u2019t want commitment yourself? Maybe you’re scared of men hurting you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\nlot of women date married men because they’re so afraid of getting out there\nand meeting men. They have relationships with married guys because deep down,\nthey know it’s never going to go anywhere. They don’t need to leave themselves\n100 percent vulnerable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Other\nwomen just love the chase. They love the drama of trying to win a man who isn’t\ntheirs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\nneed to figure out who you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My\nadvice is to stop being the other woman. It’s not fair anyone involved, and you\ndeserve a man of your own!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

David Wygant is a dating\ncoach<\/a> who spent the past 20 years helping men and women transform\ntheir love lives. As a lead writer for Ask Men and Huffington Post, his advice\nhas been offered across television, newspapers and magazines, including MTV,\nThe New York Times, MSNBC, Fox News, Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health, E!\nEntertainment Television, and more.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you think he’s yours, think again. At least three times a week I get an email from women asking me for “relationship advice” about the married man they’re dating (i.e., having an affair with). These “other women” are all frustrated because the guy they’re cheating with hasn’t left his wife, and they want some […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":27983,"featured_media":9019,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_paywall_metabox":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9162","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9162","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/27983"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9162"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9162\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9163,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9162\/revisions\/9163"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9019"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9162"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9162"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9162"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}