If\nyou want to know how to get a girlfriend, the best place to start is by knowing\nwhich personality traits women find most attractive so you can identify those\nyou currently have, as well as what you should work on moving forward whether\nyou’re in a relationship or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Knowing\nhow to get a girl to like you relies on understanding what women want and\ndesire most from you physically, emotionally, and mentally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
First,\nlet’s look at the definition of attraction<\/a>, which is “the action or\npower of evoking interest in or liking for someone or something.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n So\nmany people see dating and relationships as a game, but try thinking of it on a\nmore personal level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Everything\nin life is based on desire, need, and pleasure. If something appears to fulfil\none of those criteria, we are attracted to it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n For\nexample, when you\u2019re out shopping for clothes of a specific style, color, or\nbrand, it’s because you saw a look somewhere, perhaps on someone else or in a\nmagazine. You are attracted to it something about it that caught your\nattention, and you believe that finding it will fulfill a desire or need and\nbring you pleasure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n What\neach of us desire, need or get pleasure from is different. So while people tend\nto think that just because they are a “good catch” or a good person,\nanyone they want should be attracted to them, it doesn’t like that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Men\nneed to showcase their best qualities in order to attract women, and the same\ngoes for women in return. Doing this takes time and requires you to put\nyourself first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Women\nlove sharing an emotional connection. In order to create that, you have to be\nwilling to show a woman who you are while retaining your sense of independence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If\nyou want to know how to get a girlfriend and get a girl to like you, check out\nthese 18 dominant personality traits and characteristics that (pretty much all)\nwomen want in men.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Women\ntypically want men who …<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n 1.\nHave a busy life<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n This\ndoesn’t mean being too busy to have a relationship. It means you have\npriorities, which shows her that even though you like her, she has to show you\nwho she is before she becomes a top priority herself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2.\nHave leadership skills<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Having\nleadership skills means you’re decisive. You can tell her what you like and\nwhat you don’t like, which is something most woman will be attracted to. You’re\nnot afraid to plan things with her and allow her time and opportunity to get to\nknow you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3.\nHave passion<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Women\nfind it attractive when you talk about your passions in life. Expressing your\ngreatest desires builds desire in her as well. The fire that lights up within\nyou screams positivity when you’re around her, and is another way of showing\nher you have a life outside of her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4.\nHave confidence (without cockiness)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Women\ndon\u2019t want cocky; they want confident. It\u2019s nice to know a man isn’t obsessed\nwith his looks. Women tend to be sexually and mentally attracted to a man who\ncarries himself with class and dignity. Even if you know you’re hot, your vibe\nshould be about more than, as what makes someone truly attractive goes much\ndeeper than the physical.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 5.\nHave strong beliefs and opinions<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Girls\nfind it attractive when guys stand their ground in regard to their beliefs and\nconvictions. They appreciate a man who communicates in a respectful manner\nbecause he holds himself to high standards.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When\nyou don\u2019t agree with something the woman in your life says or does, you should\nbe able to communicate this to her directly. Being your own person and allows a\ngirl to like you in ways that aren’t only shallow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 6.\nHave patience<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Women\nfind it attractive when you take time getting to know them rather than diving\nin head first right away. When you pace yourself and take things slow, it shows\nher you are truly interested in getting to know her. This shows her that you’re\na catch because you want to make sure she is the right fit for you. She’ll know\nyou are a man of quality because you see yourself that way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 7.\nHave the ability to make decisions<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n When\nit comes to planning dates, most women find it attractive when a man gives them\noptions, then reaches a decision and takes action. This shows confidence and\npower. If you really want to know how to make a girl want you, show off your\nability to take the lead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 8.\nHave a good sense of style<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n You\nhave to know what you’re comfortable with, but dressing nicely for her shows\nthat you’re willing to make an effort. Just like men, women are visual\ncreatures. You don\u2019t have to be the hottest guy in the world, but you do have\nto be put together, and your personal style should align with who you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 9.\nHave a strong voice<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n This\ndoesn’t mean that you have to have a deep<\/em> voice, but it means\nthat you are confident in what you say. Steer clear of phrasing like,\n“Well, sorry, um, like, ah…” Your voice should exude confidence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 10.\nHave a beard or 5 o\u2019clock shadow<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Many\nwomen love facial hair on guys, and if you can do it, try it out! It shows off\nyour masculine side. Honestly, though, this has about a 50\/50 chance of\nworking, as it depends on what a woman is looking for<\/a>, but it is\ngood to change up your look at times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 11.\nHave a dog<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Want\nto know how to make a girl fall in love with you? Get a dog she can fall in love with first.<\/a> This is a\nslam dunk! Most girls find men with dogs attractive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Important\nnote:<\/strong> Don\u2019t get a dog just to get a girlfriend!\nGet a dog because you want one and have time to take care of it. But if you\ntypically have trouble talking to women, your pup will help you open\nconversations because cute animals are magnets for pretty much everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 12.\nHave interesting conversations<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Talk\nabout topics both of you find interesting and teach her about things that are new\nto her. When you spark conversation about something she’s interested in, she’ll\nstart asking questions. This is a great opportunity to share your areas of\ninterest and knowledge with her, and it will boost your emotional connection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 13.\nHave the ability to own your flaws<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n You\nown your flaws and know what you need to do to improve yourself. You don’t\nfocus on your shortcomings but work towards making them better and highlight\nyour strong points. You understand that life is eternal growth mode.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You\nare just trying to be the best man every second, minute, hour, month, year, and\ndecade!<\/p>\n\n\n\n 14.\nHave some nice socks<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Okay,\nthis sounds so silly, but women really do like this. We don\u2019t always talk about\nit, but it’s a fun way to showcase your personal style, which, as I said\nearlier, is attractive. And people\nwho wear crazy, colorful socks<\/a> have been shown to be independent,\ninteresting, and successful!<\/p>\n\n\n\n 15.\nHave a good scent<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Scent\nis the strongest sense tied to both emotion and memory<\/a>.\nWhen a woman gets attached to your smell, it can help her think positively of\nyou when you are away. And certain smells can lift her mood by raising her endorphin\nlevels.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n 16.\nHave well cared for hands<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n This\nis important. Don\u2019t pick your skin or nails to the bone. Doing so is a sign of instability and shaky nerves<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 17.\nHave a sense of adventure<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Take\nrisks and seek adventure, both within life and for yourself! This doesn’t mean\nyou have to go bungee jumping every weekend, but that you like stepping out of\nyour comfort zone to challenge yourself. This signals strength to a woman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 18.\nHave respect for yourself and others<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A\nwoman observes the way you treat not just the waiter, but everyone around you.\nIf she’s impressed with your manners, she will brag to her friends about you \u2014\nguaranteed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Apollonia\nPonti is an internationally certified relationship coach who works with men to\nattract the woman they desire, build confidence, master their attraction skills\nand rebuild relationships. Find more of her expert advice by visiting her\nYouTube Channel, reading her Attract\na Woman e-book<\/a>, or booking\na coaching session<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" If you want to know how to get a girlfriend, the best place to start is by knowing which personality traits women find most attractive so you can identify those you currently have, as well as what you should work on moving forward whether you’re in a relationship or not. 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