{"id":2637,"date":"2018-01-08T13:16:26","date_gmt":"2018-01-08T10:16:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ugmirror.com\/?p=2637"},"modified":"2018-01-08T13:16:26","modified_gmt":"2018-01-08T10:16:26","slug":"if-any-of-these-7-things-are-in-your-relationship-it-wont-last","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/2018\/01\/08\/if-any-of-these-7-things-are-in-your-relationship-it-wont-last\/","title":{"rendered":"If Any Of These 7 Things Are In Your Relationship, It Won’t Last"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you recognize any of the following patterns in your relationship, it\u2019s important to do something about them.<\/p>\n

These are relationship \u2018bombs\u2019, which can do serious damage if they\u2019re not defused. By naming and knowing them, and bringing them out into the light and fresh air they can be made safe.<\/p>\n

If they stay buried, they will just end up making a very bad smell. But with the right combination of light and air, like compost, they can be slowly converted from something messy and unpleasant into something that feeds your relationship.<\/p>\n

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  1. Psychological Problems<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Narcissism, Borderline Personality Disorder and other types of mental illnesses are not as rare as you might think.<\/p>\n

    These conditions can cause serious emotional pain and damage; learn about them and look out for look out for the warning signs in yourself or in your partner, so that appropriate help can be sought out before they sabotage the relationship or the people in it.<\/p>\n

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    1. Projections<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      If either of you is idealizing or demonizing the other or using them to try to \u2018fix\u2019 your own painful memories from the past, e.g. the relationship you had with your parents, you are on a path to disappointment.<\/p>\n

      A loving partner can reassure us about how much they value us and help us to learn to accept and appreciate ourselves, but no-one can fill another person\u2019s inner \u2018love deficit\u2019 or the lack of self-valuing that can come from painful early family experiences; ultimately each of us has to do that for ourselves.<\/p>\n

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      1. Envy\/Insecurity<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        If you are secretly envious of your partner\u2019s status, wealth, skills etc., this might feel like \u2018attraction\u2019 but in fact, it will undermine you and your lover. If there\u2019s to be any chance of the relationship working well, this feeling is a signal to you to change your life to be more like the one you want, and\/or to get some counselling on this.<\/p>\n

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        1. Hidden Power Struggles<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          These usually involve passive-aggressive behaviors which aim, in an unacknowledged way, to hurt or undermine the other person. The only antidote is to admit to these feelings to yourself and to your partner.<\/p>\n

          We all have them to some extent, so they\u2019re nothing to feel ashamed of, and from this place of self-acceptance and communication, you can begin to heal and move forward together.<\/p>\n

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          1. Wishful Thinking<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            \u2018Hoping for the best\u2019 from your partner, in spite of your instincts, others\u2019 advice and the evidence \u2014but not being willing to take responsibility for making changes, including possibly ending the relationship, will surely end in tears. Hoping for a different outcome while doing the same thing is what Einstein defined as \u2018insanity\u2019. And he should know! Procrastination is always tempting, but life\u2019s too short and precious to waste in blind alleys<\/p>\n

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            1. Need For Validation<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              We can only accept and appreciate others, and be accepted and appreciated by others, to the extent that we accept and appreciate ourselves. If you don\u2019t have this positive relationship with yourself, it\u2019s essential to change it before even considering the serious possibility if having a relationship with anyone else!<\/p>\n

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              1. Fear of Loneliness<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                If either of you is willing to put up with disappointment and\/or change your basic nature to fit in with another person\u2019s needs from a fear of being abandoned or alone, this is an expression of an insecure \u2018attachment style\u2019. It\u2019s not a foundation for a good relationship and means you\u2019re being dishonest and selling yourself short, which will inevitably lead to mutual recrimination and tears. Strangely, it\u2019s when you\u2019re most able to feel happy being alone that you\u2019re likely to meet and be able to have a healthy relationship with, the right kind of person!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                If you recognize any of the following patterns in your relationship, it\u2019s important to do something about them. These are relationship \u2018bombs\u2019, which can do serious damage if they\u2019re not defused. By naming and knowing them, and bringing them out into the light and fresh air they can be made safe. If they stay buried, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":27983,"featured_media":2322,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_paywall_metabox":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[52,295,72,119],"class_list":["post-2637","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-relationships","tag-living","tag-love","tag-relationships","tag-uganda-news"],"yoast_head":"\nIf Any Of These 7 Things Are In Your Relationship, It Won't Last - Uganda Mirror<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/2018\/01\/08\/if-any-of-these-7-things-are-in-your-relationship-it-wont-last\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"If Any Of These 7 Things Are In Your Relationship, It Won't Last - Uganda Mirror\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"If you recognize any of the following patterns in your relationship, it\u2019s important to do something about them. 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