{"id":2587,"date":"2018-01-05T14:15:26","date_gmt":"2018-01-05T11:15:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ugmirror.com\/?p=2587"},"modified":"2018-01-05T14:15:26","modified_gmt":"2018-01-05T11:15:26","slug":"why-some-people-cannot-seem-to-stop-themselves-from-cheating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugmirror.com\/index.php\/2018\/01\/05\/why-some-people-cannot-seem-to-stop-themselves-from-cheating\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Some People Cannot Seem To Stop Themselves From Cheating"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cheating can be one of the most destructive actions you can take in a relationship. It destroys trust and trust is often very hard to rebuild. Everyone knows this but people cheat anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Some people don\u2019t particularly care. They simply meet their own needs and don\u2019t take much notice of the needs of their lovers. Most people don\u2019t want to destroy trust and create chaos in their relationships.<\/p>\n<p>So why do people still cheat?<\/p>\n<p>In my practice over the past 30 years, I have seen scores of couples who have come into counselling because of an affair or repeated affairs. Often, an affair is the catalyst that gets the couple working on their relationship. Recovering from breaches of trust is very difficult and so the work is much harder than it would be if they came into therapy before an affair.<\/p>\n<p>Here are the reasons I see most often on why some people can&#8217;t stop cheating despite knowing the chaos it is likely to create:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>They are impulsive.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Many people are impulsive in lots of areas of their lives. Impulsivity is very common when it comes to sex especially when people have been drinking or using other mind-altering substances. The opportunity is available so people don\u2019t think through the consequences of their actions, they simply act.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes impulsivity is a symptom of deeper problems. For example, some forms of mental illness have impulsivity as a symptom. In those cases, impulsivity is usually seen in lots of areas of life.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><strong>It&#8217;s an extreme effort to avoid conflict.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Some people find conflict really difficult to manage. They will do almost anything to avoid having conversations in which they know a lover will disagree and most likely be upset with them. These people repeatedly cheat even in polyamorous or non-monogamous relationships.<\/p>\n<p>If they believe their lover will not accept their choice for a lover or if they know they will be breaching their agreements, they simply do what they want and hope that their lover will not find out. They live the \u2018it\u2019s easier to beg forgiveness than to ask for permission lifestyle\u2019. The reality is that forgiveness is harder to give than permission.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong>They&#8217;re using an affair to exit a relationship.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Many people find it hard to end a relationship and so will use an affair as a way of leaving the relationship.\u00a0 Some have trouble accepting they truly wish to end the relationship until they find themselves involved in an affair.<\/p>\n<p>Mira Kirshenbaum calls this the \u2018ejector seat affair\u2019. The person hopes their partner will discover it and kick them out or having the affair will give them the courage to leave.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li><strong>It is a means of managing boredom.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>The sexual excitement at the beginning of a relationship is not everlasting. There are some chemical elements to that crazy excited, high, in love feeling.<\/p>\n<p>For some, when this dies down and transmutes to the feelings that go with a stable, multi-layered relationship, this becomes an issue. They become bored and go looking for that feeling of excitement and intensity again.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li><strong>They are retaliating for their partner\u2019s affair.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Some people feel the only way to react to their partner cheating is to go and cheat themselves. Somehow, this makes them \u2018even\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Of course it doesn\u2019t work. It just complicates things as they have the anger about the partner cheating and their own conflicted feelings about their cheating.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li><strong>Monogamy doesn\u2019t work for them.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Since polyamory and non-monogamy became more visible and more acceptable, this is happening less often. However, there are still people who don\u2019t realize that the problem is monogamy is not a good fit for them.<\/p>\n<p>These people are attracted to lots of people for many different reasons and want different types of relationships. They often experience FOMO (fear of missing out) when they are in monogamous partnerships. They feel trapped or stifled as well. They have a much higher rate of cheating than people who are comfortable in monogamous relationships.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"7\">\n<li><strong>They are trying to sabotage themselves or their relationship.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>These people cheat when things get \u2018too good\u2019. On some level, they feel that they don\u2019t deserve a relationship that is this close or working this well and so they sabotage by cheating. Some of these people have a fear of intimacy and it just feels too much.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"8\">\n<li><strong>They have a fear of commitment.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>People who fear commitment\u00a0can find themselves cheating whenever a relationship gets to the place where they should move to the \u2018next stage\u2019. The pressure to commit is often internal rather than from the partner.<\/p>\n<p>Monogamous society has an unspoken timetable for moving relationships forward step by step to the next stage. It can make people uncomfortable when people don\u2019t move on to the next stage at the right time.<\/p>\n<p>Parents ask questions like &#8220;When are you going to get married?&#8221; or &#8220;Isn\u2019t it time you moved in together?&#8221; or suggest that if you are thinking of a family, time might be running out.\u00a0There is a timetable when you are considering having a family \u2014 at least for women.<\/p>\n<p>The biological clock is not something we can avoid if we want to have our own biological children unless we choose to freeze eggs for later use.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"9\">\n<li><strong>They&#8217;re using an affair to bring the passion back to their marriage.\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>They think that either they will feel more passionate about their spouse as well or that possibly being found out will lead to the passion coming back into their marriage.\u00a0This is a lousy strategy and rarely works.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you cannot seem to stop yourself from cheating, here are some things to consider:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong><em>Analyze why you are cheating.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\nYou are likely to\u00a0need some help figuring this out\u00a0so this is a good time to seek out therapy or coaching to help you understand what is driving you to cheat.<\/li>\n<li><strong><em>Figure out if you really want to stop cheating.<\/em><\/strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\nIt\u2019s no good saying you will stop if you don\u2019t really want to.\u00a0If you find yourself in this position, spend some time learning about ethical non-monogamy.\u00a0Cheating is unethical non-monogamy.\u00a0There are many types of ethical non-monogamy and one or more may appeal to you and if you are in a relationship one or more may appeal to your partner as well.<\/li>\n<li><strong><em>Think through the consequences for yourself and your partner if your behavior remains unchanged.<\/em><\/strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\nAre you OK with these consequences?\u00a0If not, get some help to change your behavior and\/or negotiate a different relationship pattern with your partner.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cheating can be one of the most destructive actions you can take in a relationship. 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